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Clarity Compass Career Coach

For navigating and mastering life’s most powerful changes.

Get REAL

WHAT IF YOUR LIFE COULD CHANGE IN JUST FOUR WEEKS?

WHAT IF, IN JUST ONE MONTH, YOU KNEW EXACTLY WHAT TO DO AND WERE FINALLY DOING IT!

THE CLARITY MAP

Is the ultimate 4 week boot camp for people who have waited long enough to be happy!

If you’ve lost your passion and are yearning for a life of meaning…

If you’re stuck at a job that gives you a paycheck but no advancement or JOY…

If you’re grasping at straws as you think about your ultimate goals…

If you’re unhappy with your current situation but don’t know how to change it…

Welcome home… this is for you!

The GET R.E.A.L QUICK SHIFT BOOTCAMP:
A Journey Back to Your Passion and Purpose

YES, I WANT TO GET R.E.A.L.!

Let me ask you a question.

Are you feeling a little frustrated with the difference between what you dream for and what you have?

It’s easy to forget that you once had big goals for yourself.

It’s easy to assume that it’s better to not upset the apple cart that is your life than to go after what you really want.

Yes, these thoughts are easy. But they’re also holding you back from a deeper, fulfilling of experience of life and maybe even, your destiny!

The good news, is, you don’t need to continue feeling unfulfilled or that you’re running on empty.

Your unique talents and passion – the very things that will open the door to the rest of your life –  have not left you. You only need to get to know yourself again and uncover those gifts!

It gets tiring, being on the treadmill of the same old, same old. We all want to live lives that are EXTRAORDINARY and PURPOSEFUL.  Even if you feel unmoored and unsure about taking that step towards greatness, the time to do it has arrived. Stop thinking about the path untaken and make some changes!

Time to GET R.E.A.L.

Reconnect to your passion and purpose

Evaluate your vision and goals

Align your purpose path with your current reality

Let go of fear and make it happen!

But how? Is it even possible to make YOUR dreams come true when you are so busy supporting everyone else?

It is possible. I know, because I’ve done it!

Hi! I’m Kirsten de Greling-Visman, and I’ve designed this program exclusively for people who want to better understand their strengths, grow beyond their current position, and get clear on their life’s goals and purpose.
Kirsten

In just 4 weeks, Get R.E.A.L will show you how to set and achieve anything you have in mind, from advancing in your current job to improving your relationships to starting your own business…whatever it is that will fulfill you and get you EXCITED about your life again!

I experienced a time when I struggled with my place in the world. My fiancé took a job in Albania, and I joined him there. When I first arrived, my head was filled with dreams of all the new adventures I’d have…but then the reality of day-to-day living set in. I wasn’t working, missed my family, and felt bored and untethered being home alone all day.

But one benefit of this solitude was it allowed me to have time with my thoughts and figure out exactly what I wanted from life. After all, the only person responsible for my ultimate happiness was me, and I did not want to waste any more of my life just wishing things were different, without a real plan for change!

The CLARITY MAP – GET R.E.A.L Boot Camp was born from this experience. I undertook a lot of soul searching and research to figure out how to combine my passion with a career that would fill my days with joy. The research I did worked…and ultimately led me to my thriving, global coaching business that I still love today!

Now, I’m taking everything I learned in my personal journey to help you pinpoint your unique strengths and talents, and show you how to combine them with your dreams and goals to make you unstoppable! Your authentic self will shine through and you’ll no longer be afraid of going after what you want.

A RECENT STUDY SHOWED THAT 350 MILLION PEOPLE SUFFER FROM SOME FORM OF DEPRESSION.

Now that depression takes all forms, from the truly traumatized to the general, season feeling of malaise.

I share that statistic with you because other studies have shown that one major cause of sadness is a disconnect from one’s own identity.

In a nutshell- not knowing what to do with your life can make you miserable!

Luckily you don’t have to waste any more time WONDERING. There are questions you can ask yourself that will open the doors to crystal clarity and restore a sense of balance, purpose and fulfillment to your life.

Wouldn’t it be great to finally wake up and NOT wonder? 

The CLARITY MAP will give you the tools you need to:

  • Escape the feeling of overwhelm
  • Figure out a plan to find a career that truly fulfills you
  • Move beyond past hurts and disappointments
  • Strategize ways to get beyond the places where you’re stuck
  • Dream big
  • Live authentically and unapologetically
  • Realize that you are strong enough to accomplish your goals
  • Make the life shift from “good enough” to “extraordinary”
  • Define measurable and attainable goals and action steps that light you up with enthusiasm

The course is so much more than a lecture series. Each week features activities and exercises that will get to the heart of WHO you are, WHAT you want, and WHERE you want to go in life.

You don’t need to be afraid of setting long-term life goals. I will show you how to break your goals down into manageable, ATTAINABLE pieces…and before you know it, you’re well on your way to achieving the life you dreamed for yourself.

PLUS, every step of the way you’ll be surrounded and supported by other people pursuing their own goals and dreams through the program, via our private Facebook group. Share your victories and work through stumbling blocks with others like you – driven people who want their lives to be passionate and fulfilling…lives of purpose.

BUT WHY SHOULD YOU LISTEN TO ME?

I have created a life that allows me to travel all over the world with my family, while running my business that helps people connect to their purpose, their identity and their joy.

That was my dream and I did it!

I now host Coffee Coach Mornings What’s NEXT (based on GET REAL) for globetrotting women in transition in Zambia. The participants have been challenged to take a hard look at themselves and they brought back to life their core genius and their passion. They obtained clarity on where they were standing in their own way of success and they now have a clear clarity compass to direct them on their paths to realize their dream projects and careers no matter where they are based in the world.

We can barely keep up with the growth that Coffee Coach Mornings has enjoyed. It seems that more and more people every week are finding themselves READY to stop treading water and START living the life they day dream about.

As I realized in Albania, LIFE IS TOO SHORT to feel like you’re missing out on your calling and your soul’s joy!

Allow yourself these four weeks. Take the time to get to know YOU again. Everyone in your sphere will benefit when you feel valued and believe in what you’re doing!

Join the GET R.E.A.L. Boot Camp today for a price of only €479

YES, I WANT TO GET R.E.A.L.!

Here are what past clients have to say about their transformations:

Christelle CovilleChristelle CovilleExpat Partner, Zambia

I wasn't sure what to expect when I registered for Kirsten's What's NEXT Coffee Coach Mornings. I am glad I took the leap because she brought me clarity in my personal and professional life. On a personal level I had been taking care of my family for a long time and was starting to envisage a new direction in my professional life but didn't know where to start: everything was there below the surface, however Kirsten helped me uncover what I really had and wanted to offer professionnaly, while keeping a work / life balance. She managed to encourage all 5 of us to identify our strengths, make them visible to others and develop our professional projects in a very safe emotional environment. In the end thanks to her coaching tools and skills I have developed my project in a very pragmatic way: after 10 sessions I am now ready to start my business. On a personal point of view it's very satisfying to see that my professional life fits in with my core values in life: the sense of unity these coaching sessions brought me is very fulfilling. As a bonus I now have a group of friends I can rely on for support and further mutual development.

Anna HarrisonAnna HarrisonPassionate Educator, Zambia

The What's NEXT Coffee Mornings with a Coach Twist in Lusaka are a valuable,enjoyable and enlightening process. Kirsten's warm, open and friendly approach, encouragement and endless support and enthusiasm helped boost my confidence and self belief. Where would I be without you!

Furthermore she weaved a magic thread between a group of women who may never had met otherwise.  If this even slightly peaks your interest I would say go for it, sign up - you might see through doors you never knew were there!

Gwen RonningenGwen RonningenRegistered Nurse, Canada

The Get R.E.A.L. Boot Camp allowed me to evaluate the areas of my life that needed a change. By taking time to reflect on what is important to me, I was able to clarify and make a plan for the year ahead and start taking steps now to achieve my goals.

Heather Dougan O’BrienHeather Dougan O’BrienEvent Coordinator at Haskayne School of Business, Canada

Get REAL has helped me to evaluate my limiting factors to success and assess what I really want in life. It challenged me to take a good hard look at myself and how I stand in my own way of being who I want to be. This program came to me at the perfect time and I can't wait to report on my future successes and happiness.

Rumman KhanRumman KhanExpat partner, Zambia

Kirsten has been immensely helpful in giving me more insight about myself and my passions. She is very inspiring and has helped me to find direction, clarity and drive to materialise my dream project! She is truly skilled in what she does.

Emily BaileyEmily BaileyExpat partner, Malawi

At a time when I felt completely stuck in a rut, having given 10 years to raising babies and following my husband’s International career, I found myself in a place of low personal confidence and with many crippling fears. I approached Kirsten to help me find my way forwards. Kirsten has been a wonderful coach. She is incredibly supportive, Intuitive and empathetic. I have found her to be sensitive but directive in her approach, as she guided me gently towards finding my own answers, giving me personal tools and helping me to find the courage to take new risks and get outside of my comfort zone. She helped me to see possibilities, where before I felt lost in a fog.  She helped me to understand the importance of self-care. I would recommend Kirsten to anyone who feels stuck, frustrated or de-motivated. She is very, very good at what she does!

Amanda ConwayAmanda ConwayConway Consultants, Zambia

The last few weeks have been positively life changing for me.  During the "Visioning and Goal Setting Coffee Mornings with a Coaching Twist" I learned a lot about myself.  I unlocked the insecurities within myself that held me back from achieving my full potential, and I discovered how to put my strengths and positives of my personality into action!  I have always believed in setting goals, but never knew how to set them properly, or how to actually meet them, within a given time frame!  I now know how.  I will forever be deeply grateful for the opportunity to have learned so much, and for the opportunity to have met such a wonderful and caring woman, whom I found to have amazing perception and insight into her clients!  Kirsten de Greling – Visman is a true inspiration!

Marijke Zimba – de JongMarijke Zimba – de JongOrganizational Effectiveness Advisor, World Vision Zambia

Until I started participating in the "Visioning and Goal Setting Coffee Mornings with a Coaching Twist", I never took deliberate time in my busy life to sit, ponder, plan and visualize a life that truly expresses my passion and purpose. Being a part of this series of group coaching sessions, has helped me tremendously to regain perspective, clearly visualize the future and plot steps in the right direction. I really liked the way Kirsten conducted the sessions: asking the right questions, providing pointers when appropriate, anticipating on the participants and challenging the status quo.

Lieke Berghauser PontLieke Berghauser PontConsultant, Zambia

After more than 12 years abroad where I alternated between being a stay-at-home mother, doing voluntary work and consultancy work for development organizations  I was trying to figure out "what next?". The coaching sessions with Kirsten have helped me enormously to get a clearer picture of the direction I want to go and to regain confidence to take the necessary steps to reach this goal. Kirsten's own experience abroad is in that respect invaluable as well as her warm and open personality.

Mavis MusindoMavis MusindoExpat Partner, Zambia

As soon as I landed in Lusaka, Zambia I knew that I had to do things differently this time around. I felt a huge urge to re-invent myself and take control of my career and life in general. For many years as a trailing spouse, I had been involved in many different things; from raising 3 kids, to volunteer work, to consultancy, and even starting a business, but I lacked direction, focus and fulfillment. I needed to know who I was and what I wanted out of life. I made a decision to seek help and I contacted Kirsten. It has been the best gift I could ever have given myself. Kirsten held my hand through the difficult and often emotional sessions of self discovery. She taught me the importance of setting realistic and achievable goals in different areas of my life and to make me a priority in my own life. I now have the confidence to pursue my dreams. I am feeling all fired up for great things in the future thanks to your guidance! I would highly recommend Kirsten to anyone needing a fresh start to a fulfilling career!

Maria AlpheusMaria AlpheusDigital Graphic Designer, Belgium

“What an enlightening adventure”, these are just a few words to describe my coaching experience with Kirsten. Kirsten, is nothing short of a professional, she is organised, easy to interactive with, a creative thinker, a great listener and one to whom I felt comfortable confiding in. During our sessions, she allowed me to re-discover my identity, re-focus and think outside of the box in all areas relating to my talents, career choices and most importantly my personal values. Kirsten’s planned session exercises enabled me to enjoy learning new things about myself and strengthen areas that were abandoned. Her weekly inspirational write-up was one that I also looked forward to reading. The messages were always clear and directly spoke to me. If given the opportunity to be coached by Kirsten again, I will have no reservations about it. As I move forward with all these valuable insights, I will definitely recommend Kirsten as a career coach for anyone who things they need to rediscover their personal identity.

Marielle van Es – VerhaarMarielle van Es – VerhaarScholarships Coordinator at Leiden University, the Netherlands

Kirsten managed to pin-point the hitches in my CV and with her coaching, guidance and good tips I managed to upgrade my resume into a document that really reflects my skills and expertise. After being invited for an interview I contacted Kirsten again. Kirsten gave me the confidence I needed for my case-based interview. She was able to let me see my strong points. I am certain that her coaching helped me to land the job because I was very well prepared for the interview.

THE WEEKLY LESSONS

WEEK ONE – Reconnect to Your Authenticity, Life Purpose, Passion and Unique Gifts

In this first week, you’ll spend time with a very important person – you. Hone in on exactly what in your life makes your heart sing – your WHY – and start living for it!

  • Uncover (or re-discover!) hidden qualities about yourself that you haven’t been nurturing
  • Align your values to every aspect of your life without having to hide or apologize
  • See exactly what it is that makes you stand out in a crowd
  • Have a “blue-sky session” and plan out your ideal life
  • Figure out your “WHY” – your life’s calling
  • Learn to live intently and leave a lasting legacy

WEEK TWO – Evaluate Your Vision and Goals

This week, you’ll take what you discovered about yourself and your life’s purpose and use that information to establish reachable goals, create your vision, and learn to take responsibility for your life.

  • Change your thoughts and behaviors to create opportunities instead of roadblocks
  • Make a Life Inventory
  • Stop being trapped in someone else’s dreams
  • Defining your personal success story
  • Set your personal GPS
  • Create your future from your future, not your past
  • The 8 facets of attaining your goals
  • Build the bridge from your present to your future
  • Figure out your WHAT – what you want to do, learn, be, acquire, and ACCOMPLISH

WEEK THREE – Align Your Purpose Path with Your Current Reality

You’ve done some hard work getting clear on your purpose and setting your goals. Now in this week’s lessons, you’re going to work on bridging the gap from your present to that future in which you’re living your WHY and achieving your WHAT.

  • Build the bridge from your present to your future
  • Set deadlines for reaching your goals
  • Discover why you want what you want
  • Feel excited and joyful over your plans
  • Become very clear on your current reality, and how your goals fit in
  • Finally strike a balance between obligations and pleasure
  • Get rid of the things that are sapping your energy and weighing you down

WEEK FOUR – Let Go of Fear and Set Your Action Steps

By the final week of Boot Camp, you’ll have reconnected with yourself and with your goals and dreams. You’ll know WHO you are, WHY you’re here, and WHAT you want to accomplish with your time. But you may be holding on to some fear about making your dreams a reality…about upsetting that apple cart. That’s why this lesson will be about learning to let go of your fears!

  • Learn to make fear your ally
  • Challenge yourself to do things that scare you
  • Convert your dreams into actionable goals

The time to hit the reset button on your life is now.

No more wasting time in a dead-end job or mediocre existence.
You’re worth MORE – and you can prove it to yourself through this program.

When you register for GET REAL, you’ll receive instant access to the series and our private Facebook group, PLUS these FREE bonuses:

  • Personal 45 minutes Coaching Session to help you in any of the GET REAL areas in which you’re still stuck (a €125 value)
  • A subscription to my Be Inspired, Dare to Imagine and Succeed in Life series – receive beautifully crafted inspirational quotes, pictures, and tips for success every other week via email to warm your heart and refresh your soul

Count me in!

Wouldn’t it be wonderful to wake up in the morning eager to face the day and looking forward to working towards your goals?

You have a chance to open yourself up to new possibilities. I’ve done all the research for you – go through these exercises with me and emerge with a sure knowledge of what you want from life and, more importantly, a PLAN for getting there.

Drop into your heart. Listen to the whispers of your intuition.

How would it feel if life could look totally clear in just ONE MONTH FROM THIS DAY?

Click here to get started and join me for the GET R.E.A.L. Boot Camp.

You get one life. Live it on your terms. Fulfilled. Purposeful. Extraordinary!

I’ll see you there.

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